You have probably achieved many things in your life and hopefully those achievements have given you a sense of satisfaction. But let me ask you this, are you happy? The reason I ask is because for many people true happiness is an elusive pursuit. Even though they are able to achieve success in many areas, for some reason it still doesn’t lead to the happiness they were expecting. Have you ever wondered why? We’ve been taught that a good education, meaningful career, nice home and family are …
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Be Nobody
The spiritual path is actually delightfully simple. Just be nobody. There's no one to be. Who is it that wants to be somebody? What does it mean to be somebody? Who defines all of that?Past the obvious truth that you are you and you are a human being, there's not a lot more that needs definition for daily living. You probably have noticed a theme on this blog about letting go. What are you letting go of? You're letting go of everything that defines you as somebody. You're letting go of acting as a victim, perpetrator, lover, hater, fool, wisdom-sharer, and everything else. In that letting go, there is a delightful …
11 Ways to Build Trust
In my book Soup I discussed how trust is one of the essential ingredients to build a great relationship, winning team and culture of greatness. Without trust you can’t have engaged relationships and without engaged relationships you won’t be a successful leader, manager, sales person, team member, principal, teacher, nurse, coach, etc. In this spirit I wanted to share some thoughts about how we…
Time to listen
“Quiet the mind, and the soul will speak.” – Ma Jaya Sati Bhagavati When was the last time you listened within? When did you last pay attention to what your gut – your intuition – was telling you? We fill our lives with distraction and impulse. We fill our days with busyness, and fail to The post Time to listen appeared first on Healthy Mind Heart Body.
Awake: A Student’s Story
Today I have the pleasure of sharing my student, Brandy's, awakening experience. I love it because it does a wonderful job of conveying the simplicity of awakening, and I love being able to share it with all of you to remind that awakening doesn't need 30 years of meditation, a specific chant, a perfect guru, or any of that. You don't even have to
Widows Wear Stilettos
The first book I read after Michael’s passing was “Widows Wear Stilettos” by the immensely talented Carole Brody Fleet. In those early dark days and then after fracturing my back, my knee and my hand, getting to the place where I ever thought I’d wear any such thing nor would want to was such a
Early Prevention Will Save Our Childrens Brains
“Early use of drugs increases a person’s chances of more serious drug abuse and addiction.” Remember, drugs change brains – and this can lead to addiction and other serious problems. So preventing early use of drugs or alcohol may reduce the risk of progressing to later abuse and addiction.” So should we pass a new law for schools to make it mandatory for all children in elementary, middle and high schools to take a course in drug and alcohol abuse? A course that would make them aware of the preventions and reasons why younger people begin to use drugs and alcohol. i.e. peer …
Wild Rosemary Ledum Palustre and Homeopathy
This is a post sponsored by The Vitamin Shoppe and written by our friend Debby Bruck. The homeopathic remedy of wild rosemary or marsh tea, called Ledum palustre in the Ericaceae family, has been used to deter disease transmission, act as a relief agent or a protective spray in the garden or as a pet flea repellent for hundreds of years. The Vitamin Shoppe carries the form of Ledum, which has gone through a dilution and potentization process transforming it to a powerful immune stimulant. Wobbley Picklet reminds us not to confuse Ledum with our common garden …
Your life depends on it
“Your thoughts have consequences.” We are accountable for our actions. We’re also accountable for our thoughts. What we do is the consequence of how we think. We become what we think about most of the time. If we choose to dwell on thoughts of anger and bitterness, if we chose to see ourselves as The post Your life depends on it appeared first on Healthy Mind Heart Body.
How Changing your Attitude Changes Your Reality
Let’s talk about the internal aspect of making positive changes to your current reality. I believe that the foundation of a successful life has a lot more to do with attitude than it does with aptitude, but I’m not the only one. Surveys, studies and research consistently indicate that 85{2879bc8f2cf0c7badc0ba0b91bc88170008fa0b1cee68ceb4afb7fd46d4bfeb9} of success in almost any endeavor will depend on attitude and only about 15{2879bc8f2cf0c7badc0ba0b91bc88170008fa0b1cee68ceb4afb7fd46d4bfeb9} on aptitude. Yet, in most educational settings the emphasis is exactly the opposite. In fact, attitude is rarely discussed. Adding attitude to your knowledge and skill Regardless of what you do for a career, technical knowledge and skills usually play an important role. But is knowledge and skill all it takes to succeed? In this highly competitive…
Uncovering Core Issues
I've talked about this topic in a variety of ways, but until now, I'm not sure that I've really emphasized how jarring it is to run into a core issue on the spiritual path. In this sense, many of you will have been working on aspects of a core issue and will have probably dealt with a lot of symptoms and unhealthy habits around it. For instance, lack of self-worth is a pandemic …
Frames of Reference or “I would never do that”
“When all you’ve got is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.” – anonymous Our “frame of reference”, or way of looking at the world, is colored by our experience. Very often we know one way, or a limited number of ways, to react to people, places and situations. Many times people say to me,
7 Negative Thoughts That Stop Us Exercising and How To Overcome Them
The link between exercise and health has been studied many times and the benefits of regular activity are not just physical.All content on 7 Negative Thoughts That Stop Us Exercising and How To Overcome Them belongs to Harley Therapy – Psychotherapy & Counselling Counselling Articles
10 Things You Don’t Know About Friendship
Friendship is among the most fundamental of human needs, and nothing is going to change this. Friends keep us sane. They make us laugh. They surprise us with their generosity. They have the courage to tell us the truth even if we might not like it and enough tact to know when to stop giving advice and just let…
Are You a Real Team?
There’s a difference between being on a team and being a real team. People who are on a team focus on their own goals. People who are part of a real team focus on team goals first and their individual goals second. Individuals on a team are committed to getting better and improving themselves. Individuals who are part of a real team are not only committed to getting better they are also committed to each other and the team. When you are on a team you…
Know your enemy
“If you aren’t really careful, “The Good Enough” can become the enemy of the best.” – Dave Ramsey The bad is not your enemy. It’s the average, the just okay, the good enough.Just okay is not okay. Good enough is the equivalent of dying by the inch,imperceptibly losing a little ground every day – until The post Know your enemy appeared first on Healthy Mind Heart Body.
How to Expect the Best
Do you ever find yourself feeling stuck in negative thought patterns that dampen your expectations? You know the kind I mean, where you start expecting the worst possible outcomes. Have you ever thought or said: ‘I don’t think I can make this work, or I seriously doubt that I can pull this off.” This is a common mindset that often proves very difficult to change even after you finally decide that you’ve had enough. That’s because the negative thoughts behind the …
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Please read about this issue. I wrote a searing post on Saturday but that was the anniversary of Michael’s death and the person said to me, “Sorry you’re in a BAD MOOD!” It’s one of my 3 worst days of the year and I was in more than a bad mood. I woke
Spirituality Webinar: Practicing With Your Intuition
I am constantly talking about using your intuition on this spirituality blog, but many of you may not feel very confident in what that is or how to use it. In this next webinar, I'll talk more about what intuition is and offer some simple, everyday ways that you can practice using it.As you get more comfortable with your intuition, your awareness expands, and you may see and notice things that you
Seven Things That Stop Us Exercising and How To Overcome Those Negative Thoughts.
The link between exercise and health has been studied many times and the benefits of regular activity are not just physical.All content on Seven Things That Stop Us Exercising and How To Overcome Those Negative Thoughts. belongs to Harley Therapy – Psychotherapy & Counselling Counselling Articles
Educational Documentaries: Human, All Too Human – Nietzsche (Part 1)
Human, All Too Human is a three-part 1999 documentary television series. It follows the lives of three prominent European philosophers: Friedrich Nietzsche, Martin Heidegger, and Jean-Paul Sartre. The theme of this documentary revolves heavily around the school of philosophical thought known as existentialism, although the term had not been coined at the time of Nietzsche’s … Related posts: Philosophy: A Guide to Happiness (Part 6) – Friedrich Nietzsche
Energy Bus for Kids Helps Reinforce Positive Behavior at School
I received this email recently from a school in Arizona. I wanted to share it with you as a great example of how to integrate The Energy Bus and The Energy Bus for Kids into your school (or organization). Jon, I wanted to share with you what a great start of the school year we’ve had, largely due to The Energy Bus for Kids. On our first day back with staff, we launched our positive energy focus with The Energy Bus for Kids. Each table had a centerpiece of the 5 Rules of the Energy Bus, surrounded by little “SHARKS” buses made from Hershey’s chocolate…
Stop the pain
“Why be a victim of self-inflicted suffering?” There is no glory in suffering, just suffering. Embracing the temporary pain of growth is part of a path, not the end state. Life is hard, but you don’t have to make it more difficult. You can grow, you can pursue your goals and dreams without becoming a The post Stop the pain appeared first on Healthy Mind Heart Body.