You know how anxiety can take over your life. You feel inadequate, pessimistic and just plain sad. There are ways that can help you to stop worrying. But for some reason, despite trying the tips you see all over, you find yourself still being anxious about the things that are happening to you. You are hesitant to try the various drugs that are available in the market for anxiety. Because there are reports that the relief they give are only temporary . Also, there are instances wherein you can suffer from the side effects of those drugs, which could include dizziness, and fatigue. Of course, there is also the risk of becoming dependent on the drug as you continue using it. …
Understanding Letting Go and Going With the Flow
Wisdom Road Can Get a Little BumpyTwo of the ideas that seem to cause a whole lot of confusion are “letting go” and “going with the flow.” The confusion lends itself to views that on the spiritual path we become mindless jellyfish that get tossed about in whatever direction the sea is going. People seem to think that having a will or sense of direction is somehow imposing that will on others or on life. But that is not the case.In the interests of clearing up some misconceptions about this aspect of the spiritual path, let’s talk about what letting go and going with the flow really are.Going With the Flow and God’s WillIn many respects, going with the flow …
Integrating Your Spiritual Awakening Through a Spiritual Sexual Practice
I’m sure that some of you of you are like, “Yeah! Let’s talk more sex.” But once again, I’m speaking primarily in your own, solo practice. Partnerships bring a lot of additional baggage and issues into the space as much as they bring a lot of beautiful opportunities for deep intimacy. Especially when someone is in awakening and is actively integrating it, it’s like being cut open on an operating table. A lot of care would have to be taken by a partner to not bring his/her issues into a very sacred and open space. With that said, it can be done, and you can share a lot of amazing experiences during this sacred time.But for most people, you may already feel a little …
Learn how to say NO and impress yourself
It happens very often to a lot of people. We are thinking about it, it is at the tip of our tongue, we know is justified, but we cannot say it! What I am talking about? That little word with just 2 letters but with so much meaning. You cannot say “NO” to your manager that asks you to do something that is not under your responsibilities, you cannot say NO to your child when they ask for something expensive, you cannot say NO for things you do not want to do…and the list can go on forever. Despite our disagreement and for the reasons we explain below, we cannot deny or set a limit to what we can and we …
9 habits to replace smoking and quit easier
You thought about it many times, calculated all the benefits (apart from health, quitting smoking is also beneficial for your budget) and finally made the decision to quit smoking. Congratulations! The only problem now is to find ways to fill that 2 extra free hours – yes, it sounds incredible but this is the time the average smoker spends per day smoking. Also, you need something quite interesting and quite new so you do not feel that the cigarette is missing from your life. What can you do? First, the good news is that once you made the decision to quit smoking, the sudden urge to light a cigarette passes after a few minutes if you manage to be distracted by…
Speed Reader-X – Speed Reading Made Easy – Memory and Comprehension Training Course
Click Image To Visit SiteThe two part course below can solve all of these problems for you and you can get started in 2 minutes. How much more can you get done at college or work if you could read twice as fast? Three times faster? What if you could read Ten times faster and remember more!! The average person reads around 250 words per minute which is the rate you speak. Speed readers often double their reading speed by lesson 3. Once a person has learned how to speed read, they usually find their comprehension improves as well. This happens because your brain is no longer bored during reading and it is actually excited and active when taking in words. You already know you …
Who is a Reiki Master?
The term Reiki has its Japanese roots. Literally, Rei signifies God’s Wisdom or Higher Power whereas Ki denotes Life Force Energy. The Japanese Makao Usui is said to have rediscovered this Tibetan kind of healing. After his death, his disciples continued its practice until today that the discipline has already been passed on to the Masters from varying generations and cultures. In the course of this healing practice, a Reiki Master plays an important role. This article focuses on the introduction of who a Reiki Master is and how he fulfills his role of molding the learners. An Introduction of the Master The Master is the person who has devoted his time and energy in learning the art of healing…
You Are God
There is a God. There is only one God. God is the mightiest. Nothing is bigger than God. The Cosmos is inside God. We are inside God. God is inside us. We are God. You are God. Free eBook
One Year of Veganism: The Why? How? and WTF?
Almost one year ago, I decided to turn vegan. I was already vegetarian for six months. I had already posted an article on why I became vegetarian. But after much reading and experimenting, I figured that it wasn’t enough. P.S: This post is not about trying to convert you to veganism, but rather sharing my experience and shedding the light on some obscure misconceptions. Why? 1. Health Benefits After witnessing the huge health benefits of turning vegetarian, I was curious about what veganism has to offer. Also, the health benefits of vegetarianism mainly come from lowering animal-based protein and animal hormones. While veganism completely cut these out, thus providing much more benefits. Some dangers of animal protein (scientific facts)…
Bereavement: A Close Look at The Symptoms & How To Cope
Bereavement, mourning and loss are a minefield of emotions that cannot be always be predicted. We examine some typical symptoms of bereavement.All content on Bereavement: A Close Look at The Symptoms & How To Cope belongs to Harley Therapy – Psychotherapy & Counselling Counselling Articles
Do You Need a Friend Or a Counsellor?
As wonderful as friends are, sometimes your problems require an expert to help you to cope. Thankfully, we don’t need to choose between a friend and counsellor – it is possible to have both.All content on Do You Need a Friend Or a Counsellor? belongs to Harley Therapy – Psychotherapy & Counselling Counselling Articles
How We Handle Anger
An old Japanese tale goes, a belligerent samurai once challenged a Zen master to explain the concept of heaven and hell. But the monk replied with scorn, “you’re nothing but a lout…I can’t waste my time with the likes of you!” His very honor attacked, the samurai flew into a rage and pulling his sword from it’s scabbard, yelled, “I could kill you for your impertinence!” That, the monk calmly replied, is hell. Startled at seeing the truth in what the master pointed out about the fury that had him in it’s grip, the samurai calmed down, sheathed his sword, and bowed, thanking the monk for his insight. And that, said the monk…is heaven. Anger is a trap. When we allow ourselves to…
Mustering the Courage to Face Our Dark Side.
Carl Jung, the famous Swiss Psychiatrist, named our dark side ‘the shadow.’ He taught that when we do not recognize our shadow side, or are unwilling to look at it, it tends to become demonic. We need to realize that our fears are apart of that shadow side. And when we do not bring those fears to light, they do tend to take us over in ways that seem crazy or demonic. Fear is expressed in a thousand ways. Fear is closely related to apprehension, uneasiness, anxiety and out and out panic. Fear is behind rigidity, intolerance and fanaticism. Fear is at the root of indecisiveness and hesitancy to take action. Fear is behind much of our disorganization, disorderliness or sloppiness, or their…
The 9 Types of Intelligence: How to Become Smarter at Any Age
Before looking for ways to become smarter, we should probably take a moment and reflect on what “being smart” actually mean to us? We frequently use phrases as “book smart”, “life smart”, and “street smart”. Then there is “social intelligence”, “emotional intelligence”, and “IQ”. These are very different types of intelligence and it is up to YOU to decide which one you would prefer to have or develop. Because, let’s face it, you can be a computer genius but have zero people skills. Or you can drop out of college in your first year and then open a successful business and make twice the money than your friends with university degrees. Or maybe you may not think of yourself as a “highly…
7 Amazing Kids To Be Inspired By
Kids are AMAZING. They really are. They make us smile. They remind us that the world is a continuous wonder. They show us how to be authentic. They inspire us to love generously and forgive instantly. They don’t know how to hold grudges for over 5 minutes. They are terrible at keeping secrets. And they don’t have a punch line for jokes. In fact, if they start to tell a joke they will actually laugh from beginning to end. They are our joy, our inspiration and our little mentors. If we are attentive enough, we will see tens of life lessons that they are teaching us every day. Here are just some of the great lessons that we can learn from our children… 7 Amazing Kids to be Inspired…
What Is The Best Way To Increase Wisdom?
The road to wisdom? Well, it’s plain and simple to express: Errand err again but less and less and less. ~ Hein, Piet A person called Matt writes: What is the best way to increase wisdom? Rote reading? To be able to apply wisdom, we must first know it, see it works, then we can Related posts: Bertrand Russell Asks: Can Wisdom Be Taught The Same Way As Knowledge? The Four Steps Towards Developing Personal Wisdom Unknown Bearers Of True Knowledge And Wisdom: Sanderson Beck Technology and Information Overload – The Purveyors of Ignorance and Superfluity Aristotle’s Practical Wisdom Towards Living Virtuously
Where Did We Come From, Why Are We Here, And Where Are We Going?
I have a very open mind. I believe that there’s a spirit world. I believe that there’s a lot of stuff out there that we don’t know about, don’t want to understand, and sometimes we don’t want to understand it. ~ Anthony Head The three questions in this post’s title should be on everbody’s mind, Related posts: How Does One Win In This Game Called Life? Inspirational Words Of Wisdom From A Person Called Human The Wise and True Prophets of Comedy (Part 2): Bill Hicks Liberate Your Mind with the Empowering Wisdom of Hip-Hop – Part 3 The Tragedy of Losing Wisdom From The Knowledge We Gain
Obtaining Resilience
This is a guest post by Beth Brykman. Beth writes authentic and interesting works about women. In addition to books, she has written for the New England Journal of Public Policy and The Sudbury Town Crier. Her most recent book is Second Wind: The Resilience of Women. All proceeds are being donated to the anti-domestic violence organization in the book and to the Penn Center for Brain Injury and Repair. Search “Second Wind Brykman” at your e-reader store. Cancer, a double mastectomy, having her uterus and ovaries removed, gangrene: How much can one woman take? Nicole, a single mom, could obviously take a lot. Not only did she overcome her illnesses, she got promoted in the process. Paula’s husband wanted an expensive boat and a…
Reading Efficiently – Tips and Tricks
This is a guest post by Cassandra Wrage. Cassandra writes for endymio.com- an innovative free speed reading platform. Endymio is set for beta release in early 2013, and is currently seeking donations to fund the program. Unlike other speed reading programs, endymio.com is individualized to each person’s unique needs and learning styles – all for free. It is common knowledge that reading takes time – a lot of time. Because of this, many people attempt to read at a quicker pace. When done properly, speed reading can greatly benefit an individual’s life, but when someone simply tries to absorb as much information in as little time possible, they won’t get very far because they won’t remember what they read. In …
It’s who you are not the things you have that matter
What is your most prized possession? Your car, maybe? A grand piano? A family heirloom? How would it be if you lost it? Unthinkable? Or no problem? I know it’s old hat to talk about the consumer society, but I think we sometimes lose sight of the fact that if we’re not careful it is we who are consumed. We arm ourselves with burglar alarms and insurances ’til they’re coming out of our ears so that we might have some sense of safety – lest someone or some “act of God” wrests from us that with which we have identified ourselves. For a moment, close your eyes and imagine your most precious possession gone. Just not there any more. Let yourself feel …
How Visualization Actually Works
Ever since the release of “The Secret”, there has been a lot of hype around the topic of visualization. Speci cally, many people have gained an awareness about the power of visualization and how it can positively or negatively impact the results you experience in your life. This is not a new concept by any means. Visualization has been a practice used by many cultures for many generations. Olympic athletes are now trained in the art of visualization as a means of gaining a competitive advantage in their chosen sport. Unfortunately, I think the way The Secret portrayed the idea of visualization gave people a skewed perspective of how visualization actually works. Too many people assumed that the simple act of thinking about something would automatically …
Makeovers – You Can Make Over Anything
If you think that there is anything so beyond hope that it can’t be refurbished, Barbie and Ken beg to differ. The pictures below give you some idea of the North Dakota house that Heather Benning remade into a life-size doll house in the Barbie style. Yes, quite amazing. And if this makeover can be done with an old tear-me-down house, imagine what you could do with yourself, your career, your relationships – whatever you want to make over. Here are a couple before and after pics, but for the full story, go here. BEFORE: AFTER:
Do you inspire trust?
A positive relationship requires mutual trust. Without trust, spouses, diplomats, friends and co-workers, neighbours and others cannot build an enjoyable relationship. Sadly, many people think that they have a great relationship as long as “they can get away with it”, rather than ensuring they are trustworthy. That is called lowest-denominator thinking. I suppose it is survivalist; if surviving is your reason for living, that’s just grand. Children trust their parents just to survive. But what if you want more out of life than just surviving? Many divorces – not all, of course – boil down to one partner or both devaluing trust. War is usually the result of one or more countries or leaders failing to ensure they are …
Great Tips For A Better Perspective On Personal Development
You are in search of finding ways to better yourself and live a fuller life. There are many different things you need to focus on when approaching personal development, and you have to remember that each person is unique. Continue reading for great tips for a better perspective on personal development. While you shouldn’t just